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🎄If she’s not climaxing, it’s not because she’s “broken.” It’s because she’s not relaxed, not feeling safe in her body, or you don’t actually know what you’re doing. Most women don’t dislike oral because of you — they dislike it because it feels rushed, performative, or disconnected. And many women don’t love giving oral because it feels like a chore… not a sacred exchange. Trauma lives in the nervous system. If she’s tense, distracted, or dissociated, her body literally cannot open to pleasure

During the pandemic, when the world was told to stay apart — I still led retreats. We touched. We breathed together. We did yab yum, we healed, we remembered what it meant to be human. And not one person got sick. Because real connection — sacred, intentional, heart-centered connection — strengthens the body, not weakens it. Intimacy is medicine. Energy is immunity. When love is present, fear dissolves. ✨ If you’re ready to go deeper, join my Shakti/Shiva Circle or explore 1:1 coaching — DM me o

Shame is one of the greatest blocks to our full potential — in intimacy, creativity, and even in how we show up in life. When shame lives in the body, it suppresses your natural expression. You start to hide parts of yourself, fearing judgment or rejection. But the truth is — your sensuality and your self-expression are not separate. When you heal shame, you reclaim freedom — not just sexually, but emotionally and spiritually. You begin to live unapologetically, connected to your truth. ✨ For 1: